No one is going to tell you that it’s easy or that you’re not going to offend anyone by being who you are. There are no prizes or awards for pushing through the stereotypes and innuendoes that you come across on a daily basis. Yes, there are many people giving you advice on how to live, how to act and how to present yourself to others. It is difficult and sometimes impossible to please everyone.
I’m saying to you that I know what you’re going through. I am a woman. I’ve been criticized and ostracized for my beliefs, my age and my appearance. I am tired of apologizing for things I won’t and can’t change. Living in the 21st Century and in this increasingly electronic age means that anything I say will be scrutinized more than it would have been in earlier times.
1. Women are independent- In this day and age, it should be a “given” that women have their own way of doing things and need the freedom to do them. Women shouldn’t have to apologize for being independent. The Urban dictionary defines independent women as being able to pay their own way.
2. Women are entitled to strong opinions-It always surprises me when men look at you like you’re an idiot for expressing strong opinions about issues they care about deeply. We shouldn’t apologize for these strong opinions. Women with strong opinions have changed the world for the better.
3. Women are making great strides and are entitled to boast in their achievements- This is another “bone I have to pick” with men who try to belittle women by putting them down or try to tone down their achievements. Hello…we shouldn’t be apologizing for what we’ve managed to achieve. At the 2016 World Economic Forum, Madeline Heilman presented this article: 5 Practical Steps Women Can Take To Get Credit For Their Work to help women to overcome the still present obstacles that many women face.
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